I’m an educator, a widow, a two-time divorcee, and a child of divorce. Throughout my life, I have experienced many types of losses: tangible and intangible ones. The most emotionally devastating loss was the passing of my last husband of only seven years, which immediately left me feeling devastated, alone, and disoriented.

 

Also, I had two previous divorces from which I felt relief but also betrayal. In my career, I found myself no longer able to be employed in the only career I had for 24 years simply because of bureaucratic decisions and no fault of my own.

 

The most impactful loss was my parents' divorce when I was an infant which inspired the self-blaming narrative I created as a child. Subsequently, I wrestled with feelings of abandonment and rejection for most of my life which surfaced as people pleasing and perfectionism.  

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The Grief Recovery Method enabled me to reconcile my present by healing my past through completing the painful relationships and losses. I was able to stop focusing on what could be and what should have been, so I could see more clearly what is and allow what can be.

 

The Grief Recovery Method provides tools I can take into the future to mitigate the effects of future losses, which I know are inevitable as long as I am breathing. I don’t have to be so anxious about how I will handle those losses without my husband to hold my hand because I have the Grief Recovery Method to help the effects of the losses not get deeply rooted.

 

I truly look forward to assisting you or anyone you know seeking relief from their grief and losses.